Questionaire I did for a friend

    Do you think masters and slaves can ever get to the point when they spend too much time together? – And if so, how do you know when that point is?

I believe you can get to the point of spending too much time together. The point that you really know it has been way too much is if you secretly start liking the times they aren’t around, or are wishing they would leave just so you get that alone time for yourself.

    How much time away from your master do you think you need in a given week? – And what kinds of things do you like to do for yourself during your free time?

When it comes to alone time away from my Master, granted I would expect it to be only after I have finished all my tasks that serve him, but then I’d like maybe one or two hours a day, so about 14 hours a week to myself isn’t so bad. That way I can catch up on movies I want to see, or read books, or do my photography that I enjoy doing. Everyone needs privacy and alone time, or they will go insane.

    What really makes a date or any time with your master truly special for you?

What makes it better than any other time we spend together is when I have his undivided attention!

    Have you tended to avoid arguments with past owners or is it more like you to talk about all types of the feelings and concerns you have?

I do my best to avoid any argument. I am an adult, I can talk like one. When I am upset, I enjoy having maybe 20-30 minutes to just cool off, that way my temper doesn’t get in the way of my judgment, but once I cool off, I am able to just openly discuss my feelings and what is bothering me.

    Do you think masters and slaves should always be open and honest with each other, or are there things that it is okay to hold back?

I believe that they shouldn’t be afraid to openly discuss things, but let’s face it. If my best friend is telling me something personal, it should be confidential and not shared with the world. Now, I wouldn’t likely say anything about it, unless I feared they were going to hurt themselves or someone else. As far as I am concerned nothing else other than something like that should be hidden.

    Can you talk and share on an intimate level as well as you listen to a friend in need?

Yes I can

    Do people need to fish for compliments from you, or are you the kind of person who frequently gives spontaneous acknowledgements and praise to others?

Not generally, but I don’t go overboard. I do enjoy boosting egos, but sometimes going to extremes is a little ridiculous

    What are the most important responsibilities for a friend?

To listen, understand, and accept them for who they are

    Do you think success in life is largely a matter of good organization or largely a matter of luck?

I don’t think it is either. I think success in life is a matter of motivation and focus.

    Responding candidly, what are your strengths and weaknesses as a friend?

I listen very well, and I try really hard to understand and have patience. I am the life of the show really, and I try to make all my friends have a good time.

My weakness is I am easily upset about situations, and very opinionated to the point where I will tell you, even if I know it will hurt. I don’t believe in dancing around the bush. I tell you how it is, and that’s about it.

    What are the most important responsibilities you have to a romantic partner?

Making sure they are happy, keeping their trust, and being their shoulder when they need you.

    Do you feel offended or rejected when a master asks for time, space or privacy to take care of some personal business?

No

    Do you ever feel afraid that once a master gets to know you really well, that s/he will like who you really are or will think less of you?

No, I am sure they will, and if they don’t their loss. I am scared once they get to know me fully they will get bored.

    Do you find it difficult to trust a master completely? Explain.

Yes, not because I don’t trust them as a person, but because of my past experiences. I don’t want to repeat getting masters that are just like the ones I have been with before.

    Would you feel uncomfortable telling your master about things in the past of which you felt ashamed?

I would be uncomfortable about it, but if it pleased him, I would get the courage to tell him.

    Would you describe yourself as a rapid thinker? Explain.

Yes I do. I am very quick to think of things I learn, and I consider myself to be witty.

    When you become frustrated at not being able to figure out the solution to a problem, does that make you work even harder to solve it? Explain.

Yes it does, because I am a perfectionist, so I will stress over it, until it is done the way I want it to be done.

    On a typical day, would you describe yourself as a person who likes frequent change? Explain.

Typical days, No. However I don’t like things always being constant either. I get bored easily

    Would you eagerly talk to your master about your sexual fantasies?

Yes I would

    Is it like you to direct your master what to do in bed so he knows best how to please you?

I would first ask if that was alright to do.

    In your mind, is there any difference between ‘having sex’ and ‘making love’?

Yes there is.

    Do you believe that the best kind of love grows out of strong friendship?

Well, it can, I don’t think you can love someone without being a friend to them though.

    In your opinion, how can a couple overcome differences on issues like religion, ethnicity, politics or social class?

By understanding of each other. Just because you don’t like something, or believe in something they do, doesn’t mean you can’t accept them for who they are.

    When it comes to a master, how would you define someone who is unusually well adjusted?

Well, if they are adjusted, it means that they are secure, and possibly have been doing this for a long time.

    How do you flirt physically with a master and how often do you like to?

I don’t even know when I flirt. I feel I am socially ignorant when it comes to flirting….

    Do you like to act like a kid and playfully wrestle or have a tickle or pillow fight with a master?

OMG yes!!!

    How comfortable are you with PDAs (Public Displays of Affection) and which kinds?

I am into it all, even sexual!

    Have you ever taken off work early to spend some special with your master or a loved one?

Yes!!!

    Have past masters consistently complained that you would frequently call to say you were running late for a date?

No

    How much alone time during the week do you need with a master to feel satisfied?

Aside from my alone time to myself, I’d want to be attached at the hip, but I understand personal space. I feel this question is more inclined to chains, and that’s something I won’t do anymore.